Lion's Arch Merchant
Join Date: Nov 2008
Profession: Mo/
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This is such a simple thing and I know I personally struggled with social interaction for a LONNNNG time, so I want to make this thread to help out anyone who's in the same boat.
Can all the PUA shit, I'll tell you how to do it for free. And I'm gunna keep checking this thread all the time and putting up new info. A lot of the stuff I'm going to tell you is stuff I LEARNED FROM GIRLS and tons and tons of fails/success in life experience. It's legit, trust me.
And girls, dont get pissy - you KNOW you hate the awkward creeper guys that annoy the shit outta you w the same old stuttering BS. If all your interactions were with intelligent, hilarious, witty men you'd probably be a lot more social as well
ok guys.
First off, you have to understand this takes time, effort, and dedication. Just like bodybuilding, you have to put in time and hard work to overcome any weaknesses.
If you're not talking to girls and getting action, it's an issue of poor social skills. Start there.
TALK TO EVERYONE. Even guys.. I'll explain why in a minute. The more people you talk to the easier interacting becomes. Duh.
You wanna interact with ALL girls, not just 10s, or strippers, or other pointless attempts. Well, I shouldnt say "pointless" lol..
The key is to LEARN.
The problem with PUA (especially the show) is that they put so much emphasis on getting numbers and kissing right away and shit like that.
You don't need to. You're just LEARNING.
So what if you dont get a number? If she looks like shes feeling really awkward and so are you, fck it. Say "nice talkin to ya, ill prob see ya around!" and cut out. So what if some chick wont make out with you right away? Tons of girls wont, but will the next day.
The point of talking to everyone is to pick up on body language, social skills, and how YOU are making OTHERS feel. If you're awkward, they'll be awkward. If you're confident, they'll have fun and warm up. You cant magically be confident over night, so put in work!!!!
NOW - why talk to guys? Networking. Every person you talk to is a potential network.
Also, one of the most important things is the people you surround yourself with. If you only hang out with fat WoW dorks, but you look like a super stud, girls are gunna go "Wow, he's the only decent dipshit outta all those nasty dorks!"
Not good.
EVERY group (preppy, rocker, indie, stoner, jock, gangsta) has at least ONE good looking guy in it that girls love. This guy is now your best friend.
Learn from him. Ask him tons of shit about girls, ask him how he got to be so pimp. Ask him about fashion, grooming, etc.
People will just DUMP knowledge all over your chest if you're flattering them with genuine compliments. And as far as wingmen, who better than the hot guy? You're bound to pick up some girls friends, or at least get in more practice talking to them.
You're not a homo, but having good looking guy friends is crucial.
Another thing, then I'm off for today cause this is gettin long
START SMALL.
Avoid 10s for now, unless you're feeling bold. Avoid strippers. Avoid super trendy stuck up bitches that think they're hot shit. Avoid avoid avoid.
Talk to your average looking girls.
Talk to girls on myspace or facebook. It fails a LOT, unless you have some really good default. Don't be creepy. Don't be overly aggressive. You're just sayin whats up, then something witty/funny, and starting general convo. Don't ask for numbers or pussy right off the bat.
Talk to big girls, or girls you wouldn't hook up with. Remember, EVERYONE YOU TALK TO IS A NETWORK. They can give you fashion advice, things they hate guys doing, hot friend referrals, etc.
You're NOT trying to bang every girl you talk to yet. You're LEARNING likes/dislikes and getting comfortable interacting. That's all.
Take it slow youngin, you've got a whole life ahead of bangin away
As always, I'll answer anything in PM. Feel free to ask.
And I'm gunna put new tips/advice here every day or two, so check back. This is just the beginning trust me...
ttyl
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